i'm new, western united states, 54, have 3 cats: diotima, female black DSH, 15 yo, baci, male lilac point 5 yo, and houdini, male lilac point, almost 2 yo.
we live in an urban area so they can't really go outside, although houdini has squeezed out the open window onto the ledge (because i have no screens on the windows and am not allowed to) which scared me because i live on the fifth floor. i try to never leave the windows open more than a couple of inches but they're weighted so you can raise them with one finger, practically. he shoved his head under it

(guess he really wanted out there--he's always been an escape artist, hence the name).
so looking forward to chatting with all of you